Monday, 24 May 2010

The Sound of the Sea

Little did Robert and I know that on a certain day in autumn in the late seventies (as it turns out, the very day we left the Isle of Mull, Scotland, where we had been working at the Tobermory Hotel) a baby girl was born to a young, Japanese couple in Osaka, who was going to grow up and become our future son's wife and the mother of our grandchildren.
Time, circumstances , juxtapositions, patterns, chances, the planned, the unplanned; the whole, tingling, awe-ful and beautiful symmetry of life; fills me with a wonder I can barely suppress. It makes me want to do something surprising - like burst into flower.


And so ... cut .... zoom .... 2009, and our son and his Japanese wife's New Zealand wedding ceremony. They collected stones from Kaikoura beach to use as place-names for the guests at the reception. A friend then decorated the stones and everyone was able to take their specially named stone home with them as a memento.

Mixing cultures can be tricky but the results when it is successful, as in the case of our son's marriage, is a thing of beauty.

I wrote a poem for the marriage ceremony and read it out on the day, in a shower of rain (making the third stanza especially poignant, or ironic, depending upon which way you want to look at it) and accompanied by the loud wails of their baby daughter (whose second name is 'Magnolia' - hence the reference to that flower in the poem).

The Sound of the Sea

for S.E.A.


It is all the ocean

between two countries

and two small row boats

that find each other

anyway.


It is the love between

husband and wife.

The merging of worlds

within worlds, between

cultures and ancestry.


It is God opening

heaven’s windows.

It is the blessings

that fall. It is time

bursting into flower.


It is in the territory

of miracles. It is all of us

here for you. And it is sweet.

Sweet as magnolia.

As the sound of the sea.


Kay McKenzie Cooke


10 comments:

McDinzie said...

AH memories

Penelope said...

Beautiful poem, thoughts, stones... thank you, Kay.

Agnes said...

Ah, beautiful.

Also, I love the stones.... and mixing cultures... :-)

Kay McKenzie Cooke said...

McDinzie - Amazing to think it was two and a half years ago now ...

Pen - Thank YOU! for visiting, encouraging, supporting ... :)

Agnes - Thanks! :) It is a blessing ...

Joyce Ellen Davis said...

Yes. Kay, I've had the very same feelings and thought the very same things....Nice post. Thank you for sharing. I feel very close to you, and I thank you for being my friend.

Bee said...

What an awesome gift to give, as well as the thought behind it...I especially like the last stanza!

BarbaraS said...

That's such a beautiful, simple poem. Class!

Wanderlust Scarlett said...

You have an uncanny knack for making the romantic in me swoon right into bliss.
I love that about you. :D


XOXO
Scarlett & Viaggiatore

Di said...

Another breathtakingly stunningly exquisite poem ...

Catching up with your site is like opening perfect presents on a good Christmas day :-)
xx

tattooed_mummy said...

Oh the pebbles are gorgeous, lovely poem too. xx

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